tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14624038.post112263651005249302..comments2023-09-05T08:55:56.301+00:00Comments on On Earth as in Heaven: Stevehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04475918926743850643noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14624038.post-1129631313447629352005-10-18T10:28:00.000+00:002005-10-18T10:28:00.000+00:00Johnhappy for you to use it please if possible att...John<BR/><BR/>happy for you to use it please if possible attribute it to me. wouls also really like to know how the course goes. soem good material for young people that starts to open up new ways of relating their faith to those arround them is needed.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04475918926743850643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14624038.post-1122924441863519952005-08-01T19:27:00.000+00:002005-08-01T19:27:00.000+00:00And while we're at it, you may find this sobering ...And while we're at it, you may find this sobering reading, I've a lot of sympathy...<BR/>http://www.emergingchurch.info/stories/paulfromont/index.htmAndiihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03545699854077420349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14624038.post-1122914219288872332005-08-01T16:36:00.000+00:002005-08-01T16:36:00.000+00:00A handful of years back, I was leading a church an...A handful of years back, I was leading a church and encouraging us to do things that were about 'relationship' evangelism; exhorting people to make friends with non-Christians with a view to goodnewsing them. Then I got to joining that up with what we were teaching about the nature of fellowship and loving others. Add to that the experience of being 'befriended' by muslims out to make me their latest dawa project, stir together and bake for a couple of months and I emerge the other side of the process feeling that if we are not prepared to befriend without strings attached (will the relationship survive their coming to faith -or not!- ?) then we shouldn't be doing this; we're just using people.<BR/><BR/>Having also watched an evangelist work their way through a number of friendships over the years where they tenden to lose the full-on interest once the person became Christian has also been an object lesson in integrity in this matter.<BR/><BR/>I'm at the point now where I would see the making of friends outside of the church as a human calling where occasionally our love for them will mean trying to articulate the hope within us for them. But making friends without valuing them as they are and being prepared to be loyal whether or not they follow Christ is a sin; we are not loving that neighbour as ourselves.<BR/><BR/>That's without prejudice to the question about whether Christians should get a life!<BR/><BR/>There's also a theological issue embedded in the thing about loving people as they are and not firstly because we want them to repent; It makes us realise that this is what it means that God 'first loved us'. Actually, the way a lot of evangelical praxis goes, we act as if we believe that God loves us only in order to change us - which pretty much comes out as a conditional love...Andiihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03545699854077420349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14624038.post-1122683094025541672005-07-30T00:24:00.001+00:002005-07-30T00:24:00.001+00:00Lizgreat story ;o)Liz<BR/><BR/>great story ;o)Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04475918926743850643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14624038.post-1122683072404861612005-07-30T00:24:00.000+00:002005-07-30T00:24:00.000+00:00Brodie thanks it looks as if the 1370 definaition ...Brodie <BR/><BR/>thanks it looks as if the 1370 definaition may be close to linming the two? to move about being close to to turn about? i just couldn't help but see the similar lettrs and wonder!Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04475918926743850643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14624038.post-1122682974635074352005-07-30T00:22:00.000+00:002005-07-30T00:22:00.000+00:00Jeffi used to be an insurance salesman, i think i ...Jeff<BR/><BR/>i used to be an insurance salesman, i think i understand! loving people means not treating them like a target market. it also means in my expereince that i get chelenged by their spiritual journey as much as i hope mine offers things that may be attractive. when relationships are real we all get changed. my prayer is that those changes are to bring us all toward the person we are supposed to be, which is i believe in God's image.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04475918926743850643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14624038.post-1122640889865948722005-07-29T12:41:00.000+00:002005-07-29T12:41:00.000+00:00Couldn't agree more re the relationships thing.A f...Couldn't agree more re the relationships thing.<BR/><BR/>A few years ago some old 'con-evo' friends were visiting me in Manchester. Ok I confess I had deliberately taken them to the Gay Village for a drink to push their boundaries a little! Naughty I know.<BR/><BR/>Anyway I returned from the bar with drinks to have one say to the other "Ask Liz - she'd know".<BR/><BR/>The question it transpired was "how can we make non-Christian friends?". <BR/><BR/>As I regarded this couple who do church meetings three times a week, play in a christian badminton club, volunteer for a christian charity etc etc, I found myself asking "why?"<BR/><BR/>To which they seemed taken aback.<BR/><BR/>And so we had the conversation - do you want to meet non-christians beacause you want to convert them or are you looking to break out of your christian ghetto and form some proper relationships with non-christians.<BR/><BR/>I think the very fact I raised such a thought convinced them of the fact I was more back-slidden then they could have possibly have feared ;-)<BR/><BR/>As I drained my vodka I began to suspect that within their heads the thought was running "aha! see we do know at least one lost soul..."<BR/><BR/>I do so love becoming somebody's project ;-)1 i zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13558407530891673133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14624038.post-1122640531672756272005-07-29T12:35:00.000+00:002005-07-29T12:35:00.000+00:00converse (v.) "to communicate (with)," 1596; earl...converse (v.) <BR/>"to communicate (with)," 1596; earlier "to move about" (1340), from O.Fr. converser (12c.), from L. conversari (see conversation). <BR/>converse (adj.) <BR/>"exact opposite," 1570, from L. conversus "turn around," pp. of convertere "to turn about" (see convert). Originally mathematical.<BR/>from http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=converseBrodiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17281646240199549001noreply@blogger.com